This blog isn't getting used much but I think some people still check in and read what is here. Today Laura linked to an interesting blog post via her Facebook. Well worth reading and putting into your own context.
That post was (partly) about adopting someone from a foreign country but it could also be thought about in bringing into the world the extra brothers or sisters over what 'the world' thinks is appropriate. Or even any sacrifice made out of gratitude for God's blessings in your life.
I love my kids but I don't want them to be 'happy' either. Read the link.